Winning Back Lost Love By Giving Your Ex Space And Time
Why should you give your ex space? Because an essential part of any realistic plan for winning back lost love is by giving your ex space.
For your ex to miss you and start regretting the break up, they need to live their life without you. In other words, Space and Time, whether they asked for it or not.
Simply put, bombarding them with calls and e-mails / text messages on a continuous basis reduces your chances of reuniting with an ex.
If you keep barraging them, it will be like you and your ex have not really split (even though you have). Give your ex enough room that they can actually start missing you.
If they request space, no matter why, the best, and the only thing, you can do is give it to them. Giving them the time they need now, is your path for winning them back later.
Your ex is working through some personal issues right now, and they will not accomplish that when you are constantly around them in one way or another.
What If They Do Not Come Back?
There is no reason to dwell on this, it is now out of your control, I will have to be a little blunt here, you can’t change something that has already happened, they are already gone. There’s nothing more to say except the two of you are no longer a couple.
Here is another blunt truth, constantly pressuring them is not going to
bring them back, in fact it will drive them even farther away.
This is an emotional issue, you are not going to argue or persuade your way back into their heart, that is not how emotions work.
It is quite possible that they cannot figure out if they really want you in their life or not. What does this mean to you?
It means you could lose them forever. Of course there is the possibility that they will not come back, but if you go about this in the right way it is not likely to happen.
On the other hand if you keep harassing them they will never come back. The moral of the story here is that if you want them back don’t push them.
To win back lost love you have to be willing to take a chance and do it the right way, and that begins by giving them space.
Reasons To Give Ex Space
To give your ex time to calm down and start thinking more rationally. A break up is very emotionally upsetting. Crowding them will interfere with his or her own healing process, which can bring resentment, making it much more difficult for winning back the ex.
Having little or no contact gives both parties time to ponder on things that have happened between them. What went wrong? How did this break-up happen? These are some of the things on the minds of both parties, and another reason why you should allow yourselves some space.
When you are suddenly not around, they will realize that the grass is not 
greener. That life without you is not better than life with you.
When they realize they have lost something very important, or rather someone, that is when they really begin to start missing you.
It will peak their curiosity about where you are and what you are doing. This is a great trick, the more you are on your exes mind the more they will start obsessing about you all over again.
If You Don’t Give Time And Space
Are they missing you? This will not happen if your ex has not lost you at all. If you are always calling, texting or showing up uninvited wherever they are, it becomes very annoying, and it is obvious that you are ready to get back together at the snap of a finger.
At best they will take you for granted. If they can have you back anytime why not make the most of being single? Or they may come to regard you as their back up plan until someone else comes along. You do not want your ex to view you that way, do you?
At worst, they will be angry that you won’t give them space. They will start to avoid you, refuse to talk to you, or even jump into a new relationship. Anything as long as it gets you “out of their face.”
Use this time yourself to keep busy and occupied with other things that are not centered around your ex lover, your relationship and the breakup. Hang out with your friends, do the things that you find interesting.
Do your best to avoid being home alone night after night or spending too much time on your own. Doing this brings a real risk of you becoming depressed and low. People do not like to be around depressing individuals, and grief stricken ex lovers are complete turn offs.
After you’ve waited the appropriate length of time and your ex feels comfortable enough to want to speak to you again,and starts showing signs they may be interested, it is then that you can finally begin to really start to get your ex back.
It is quite impossible to lay out every scenario in a single article such as this, but what if I told you that this is just one part of a master plan. The person who designed this plan has taught thousands of people on how to go about making up after a break up.