I Broke Up With My Boyfriend And I Want Him Back
Anyone can make a mistake in their love lives, many other woman have said “I broke up with my boyfriend and I want him back”. You need to start on this right away, sometimes you can still get him back quite quickly, but most of the time though there are a few steps you will need to take and that means you will have to be patient.
Why Was There A Breakup?
The first step is to figure out why you broke up with him, then you will probably have to give him his space and enough time to work through the break up emotions. Why you broke-up with him is important because it is only after recognizing why it happened that you can go about doing the things you need to do to fix it.
If you want him back it is crucial to get this part right. Be completely honest about the situation and your role in it. Only then will you will know what it is about yourself that you need to adjust.
You May Need An Apology To Get Him Back
You will probably need to apologize and say you are sorry to him.Your apology does not have to be a long, drawn out, overdone apology. Just give your ex boyfriend a genuine apology where own up to your part in it.
A post-relationship manual called the Magic of Making Up devotes a lot of time to the issues of why breakups happen. The real causes are usually not very apparent and a lot of them deal with the different needs and expectations that men and women want from a relationship.
Once you can determine the root causes of the breakup you will know how to proceed. If you did wrong and you are going to have to face up to it, with no excuses, this is the best and most effective approach. However you do it, you will have to be sincere, take responsibility, and promise that it will never happen again.
This can be much easier by using the apology templates that are included in the Magic of Making Up system. They are time tested and proven to work and they cover all situations. For example you might remind him that you had a long history together and had shared some beautiful times together.
Your Next Step for Getting Him Back
After the apology do not constantly call or text him, that can be annoying, and you don’t want to be too pushy at this point. If you broke up with your boyfriend suddenly, he’s probably feeling a lot of confusion. Give him a little time and space, but keep the lines of communication open.
He may be concerned that if you two get back together that you may decide that you do not want him again. Be open to addressing any of his concerns and above all else, be completely honest. Once you rebuild his trust in you and in your relationship you can go on to the next step.
Remorse And Regret Is not Enough To Get Him Back
Like the saying goes, you do not really know what you had until it is gone. Unfortunately you might now realize now how much you loved him, and regret that you broke up with your boyfriend boyfriend.
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